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Solange is Not Alone in Going Gangsta- We’ve all got one


“Solange, Beyonce’s sister captured on elevator camera beating JZ,” screamed the headlines. None of us know what led up to this seemingly outrageous event. However I do know that all of us have a friend or family member who will go gangsta on someone who they think did us wrong. Even Jesus had a "Ride or die buddy" though his ride was pretty short. His name was Peter. Peter went gangsta in the Garden of Gethsemane. Remember Peter took a sword and cut off Malchus’ ear. King David, writer of the Psalms, had two first cousins, Joab and Abishai that he could not control. David said, “These sons of Zeruiah are too violent for me.” They were willing to cut off anyone’s head that they thought threatened David. Also Moses, in Numbers 11, had to quiet down Joshua from going after people who Joshua thought were out of line.

Now whether you have a relative or friend like this, or you are the one like this may I offer a word of advice. Well it actually comes from Jesus, not just to Solange, but to anyone who wants to fight other’s battles. Jesus told Peter, “Put your sword away, for those live by the sword die by the sword.” What keeps me sane and keeps me from going gangsta is I believe the Bible verse that vengeance is God’s and He will repay. Whether JZ deserved a beating or not I’ll probably never know. What I do know is “Smile!” There are cameras everywhere including elevators

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